Kubernetes Upgrades: What Managed Providers Handle for You and What You Own Yourself
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A Kubernetes upgrade is never just changing a version number. There is a node drain, a binary swap, a control plane migration, a pod eviction sequence, and — if you are running bare-metal — nobody to call when it goes wrong.
Managed Kubernetes providers handle most of that for you. Self-managed clusters make you own all of it. This post documents both sides concretely: what EKS, GKE, and AKS actually do during an upgrade, and what I built to automate the same process on my 5-node k3s cluster running on ThinkPad laptops.